T is the one who introduced his friend to me last time

His friend and I are too much different

Both of us are tired of finding topics to keep our conversation going.

Besides, I could see little shining point in his friend,

So I became more and more passive

Then both his friend and I gave up

Obviously his friend and I can not found anything in common but one thing, that neither of us is conversable.

T told me his friend thought I was always not willing to talk with him

T asked why?

I can not tell him my real opinion about his friend

In T’s eyes, both his friend and I are really introversive since he is totally an extravert, and talkative person

So I told T we were both tire of finding topics, we couldn’t found common things

T showed his understanding and he said I should found a more extraverted boy just like him

T advised I should be more talkative if I want to find a bf

Then T kept on advising how to be more extroversive and so on

I admit T is right

I can be very active before my friends

But, I am a little too quiet before strange person, only if that person has some similar background or life circle with me

Ok, I am not a good topic finder

That is a problem

T is really talkative

In fact we don’t know each other quite well

Just because we come from the same town to Shanghai for work

And, his mother knows my parents’ neighbor so we met once

And he is posing as an elder brother giving a lot of advices about how to find a bf

Ha

At least, till now, I don’t feel annoyed because something he said is really true

Ok. I have a love consultant now

T said I need practice and he could help on this by more chats with me

When T knew I live alone in my apartment, he said he would come to visit

When T knew I could not have good meals every day because of the busy job, he said he would come to show his cook skills and gave me some good meals

This seems a little more than a consultant…

I admit I am not good at saying no, and T is good at letting you say yes

So T is coming to cook a meal for me this Saturday

PS:

T broke up with his girlfriend months ago

His ex-gf and I share the same age, the same horoscope, and the same name